Perfectionism is a bitter raggedy ass bitch.
Soooo I started a Substack…
Cause 2025 is the year I make space for more writing and reading and sharing no matter how polished or unpolished it may be.
Because let’s be real: Perfectionism is a bitter raggedy ass bitch.
It creeps in, telling you your work isn’t good enough, your voice isn’t valid enough, and your efforts will never measure up…but I got news for you perfectionism…
2025 is the year for ACTION.
And I’m “THIS IS SPARTA” kicking perfectionism out the damn way.
2025 is the year for focused planning that’s returned to daily. Not just some half ass fly by the seat of my pants planning. Are you familiar with that energy too? 😅
It has worked…but its stifled my “greatness” and only allowed enough space for me to be “good”. You feel me?
The voice of perfectionism can tell you things like…
You couldn’t finish it fully the first time and you have to go back to it so don’t even bother, because you’re not skilled enough.
You have to reread and revise, because you’re not good enough to get it all right the first time.
This takes too long…if you’d done it perfect the first time you’d be done…
Are you sure your information is valid? cue hour long fact checking bender and insert thoughts of* “damn these people make so much sense already there’s no space for my raggedy input…”
Lawd have mercy that mfer is LOUD, NEGATIVE, RUDE af.
What a perception the perfectionist archetype holds.
Because that’s all it is…a perception.
A viewpoint.
An awareness.
A judgement.
Perception (noun)
1. the ability to see, hear, or become aware of something through the senses.
2. a way of regarding, understanding, or interpreting something; a mental impression.
☝🏽A WAY. Not the ONLY WAY.
When you can change your perception you can change your life…
“Free your mind and the rest will follow.” - Salt N Peppa
“Emancipate yourselves from mental slavery. None but ourselves can free our mind.” - Bob Marley
YOU ALREADY HAVE THE POWER WITHIN YOU TO SHIFT EVERYTHING!
“But Madame…HOW do I actually do this? I feel so STUCK in my habits!”
My dahling, you start by:
Noticing your thoughts in any and every moment.
Noticing the feelings in your body that accompany those thoughts.
Noticing how you judge yourself AND others.
Do you notice a theme here? 😉
In order to change something, it’s important to know what the current process is.
How can you change a behavior pattern if you have no idea what you’re currently doing or who you’re currently being?
That’s like building some intricate furniture without the instructions. Sure, you might figure it out but it’ll take you forever AND it’ll prolly fall apart 🫠.
Now you’re pissed off because you have to start all over again and you’ve spent all your time and frustration sets in 🙃🫠😅.
If repetition is the KEY to mastery my loves, then SELF accountability is the hand that turns the key.
AND your mind is what tells your hand to move in the first place.
Free your mind from the fishbowl and you can CHOOSE to swim in any direction you DESIRE!
No matter what you continually tell yourself, you are correct. Your external world will reflect those beliefs.
This is not to put BLAME on you, you’re not a victim here…
It is to REMIND you of the POWERFUL Divine creator being that you already ARE!
SO my Divinely Dynamic Dahling…
THIS is what everyone means when they say you already have everything you need within.
THIS is how you begin the journey back to self.
YOU are the HERO in your story.
And EVERY hero has a guide or receives support in some way on their journey.
The type of support is unique to you and your journey.
Are you ready to start the next leg of your adventure to living your divine purpose?
“Yes, Madame. I’m ready!”
Then let’s discover what kind of support is suited for you.
Let’s see what kind of tools and skills you already know how to use and what will be most beneficial for you to learn next.
My door is open…
do come in, take a load off, and have some tea, dahling.
We will chart your course and prepare you for your travels ahead!
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